09 Sep 1817 - Birth of her biological father Charles Grant at Littleton, Middlesex County, Massachusetts, USA 

19 Aug 1834 - Birth of her biological mother Caroline Dutton at Ludlow, Windsor County, Vermont, USA 

18 Sep 1840 - Birth of her husband Albert Gates at Bridgewater, Windsor County, Vermont, USA 

3 Oct 1849 - Marriage of parents at Ludlow, Windsor County, Vermont, USA 

31 May 1856 - Birth at Reading, Windsor County, Vermont, USA 

09 May 1864 - (7 years) Death of her biological father Charles Grant at Wilderness Battlefield, Spotsylvania County, Virginia, USA 

May 1864 - (7 years) Burial of her biological father Charles Grant at Pleasant View Cemetery, Ludlow, Windsor County, Vermont, USA 

02 Mar 1869 - (12 years) Birth of her husband Fredrick Wilder at Peru, Bennington County, Vermont, USA 

07 Jun 1872 - (16 years) Marriage with Albert Gates at Cavendish, Windsor County, Vermont, USA 

21 Nov 1889 - (33 years) Death of her husband Albert Gates at Ludlow, Windsor County, Vermont, USA 

02 Jul 1891 - (35 years) Marriage with Fredrick Wilder at Walpole, Cheshire County, New Hampshire, USA 

06 Apr 1897 - (40 years) Death of her biological mother Caroline Dutton at Ludlow, Windsor County, Vermont, USA 

Apr 1897 - (40 years) Burial of her biological mother Caroline Dutton at Pleasant View Cemetery, Ludlow, Windsor County, Vermont, USA 

18 Oct 1946 - (90 years) Death at Southfield, Oakland County, Michigan, USA 

Oct 1946 - (90 years) Burial at Pleasant View Cemetery, Ludlow, Windsor County, Vermont, USA 

29 Oct 1959 - Death of her husband Fredrick Wilder at Shaftsbury, Bennington County, Vermont, USA